Hey all, I am happy to announce that Im getting married. Im hoping to use this blog for everyone to keep track of the wedding plans, since pretty much everyone in the wedding will be long distance.
So things have been stewing here. I and my love have been very indecisive (no really, i know many of you cant believe me, indecisive...never). We cant figure out where we are getting married. my home town or where we actually live now. But I am happy to announce that I did make a decision on one aspect of the wedding. We will be married by a justice of the peace not a catholic priest. future Hubby is atheist, and I am for all purposes a non-practicing catholic. Since I am non practicing, no priest wants to marry us unless I get off my lazy butt and get practicing. I kept flip flopping on this because I really want to get married Catholic, I always thought I would, but our future will not center around faith (he doesn't have any) instead it will center on us, our family. We will make decisions that we both can live with balancing both our views. Our kids will learn about God from me, not from a priest or a sister. Not because i think i know more but because Hubby is more comfortable with that. So, that is how Ive come to the decision. I think it is the best decision for both of us. I am going to meet with a priest soon to find out how to get the marriage validated in the catholic church (i think we just have to go to classes and have a small ceremony with the priest) So thats that. Now all i need to decide is what state to get married in :)
Way to keep up with your blog.
ReplyDeleteIt's been almost two years since we've been married and I love you more than ever. Team Dean! Love you, my darling wife.