Reading, sleeping, reading

okay, i didn't actually get anything done this week except reading the Divergent series by Veronica Roth. It was ridiculously addicting and if any of the people who read this loved Hunger Games then you really really need to read this series. Thats all I wanted to tell you so I going to go back to reading :)

Update

alright, so it is official I am going to be really bad at keeping this up to date.

So after about a million visits to various places to hold wedding and receptions I have it narrowed down to two. The Tea Event Center in Tea, SD (we would get married at Tut Hill or the Tea Park) or Fox ridge golf course in Dike, IA. Okay so aside from the names (yeah could I pick two towns that have more ridiculous names, I really dont think so) I really like them both. So Im at a loss as what to do. Any advice cyber world?

http://teaeventshall.webs.com/
http://www.golffoxridge.com/weddings/wedding-picture-gallery

really it comes down to square or round tables.... Boo!

Getting Married!!!!!!!

Hey all, I am happy to announce that Im getting married. Im hoping to use this blog for everyone to keep track of the wedding plans, since pretty much everyone in the wedding will be long distance.

So things have been stewing here. I and my love have been very indecisive (no really, i know many of you cant believe me, indecisive...never). We cant figure out where we are getting married. my home town or where we actually live now. But I am happy to announce that I did make a decision on one aspect of the wedding. We will be married by a justice of the peace not a catholic priest.  future Hubby is atheist, and I am for all  purposes a non-practicing catholic.  Since I am non practicing, no priest wants to marry us unless I get off my lazy butt and get practicing. I kept flip flopping on this because I really want to get married Catholic, I always thought I would, but our future will not center around faith (he doesn't have any) instead it will center on us, our family. We will make decisions that we both can live with balancing both our views. Our kids will learn about God from me, not from a priest or a sister. Not because i think i know more but because Hubby is more comfortable with that. So, that is how Ive come to the decision. I think it is the best decision for both of us. I am going to meet with a priest soon to find out how to get the marriage validated in the catholic church (i think we just have to go to classes and have a small ceremony with the priest) So thats that. Now all i need to decide is what state to get married in :)